Amazingly simple

I don't know if you've noticed.. but I'm a mouthy bitch.
Less heavy on the bitch part lately.
But it's very simple what makes me happy: home.
These are my people. My people are important to me. No one can complain about my people except me ... punishable by death. My same people can be put to death for displeasing me but generally are allowed to remove themselves from my world til I am no longer displeased only to resurface like a giant lake monster.. where upon I forget why I was displeased in the first place.. unless you are one of the unlucky ones that did whatever so many times I blogged about putting a stop to you.

This week has been filled with some really high highs great laughs and good times and a sense of general peace. Of course.. as with all good things there are bad.. and yet.. today we will focus on the good.
I got to come home from Atlanta on Sunday before dark and managed to squeeze in time with Buster (smiling), Hissy (crying), Snowball (fun), and momma (had no phone service, no internet, no sense of humor when none of it was *really* broken!).
Monday seems filled with something.. but I don't recall..
Then Tuesday was Girl's Nite Out benefitting some booby cancer group.. I am sure they do upstanding wonderful things.. I just didnt pay much attention..
The meat of this is the who. I got to spend time with Sugar. Sugar would be Hissy's other g'ma. She rocks.
And while she rocks.. she doesn't know the power of putting people in their place.. She needs me.
Can't you tell?

What ON earth DO you do when someone asks something totally inappropriate? You respond with something SO over the top they cannot help but wonder.. "did she really just say that?"

Yes, my friends.. it's amazingly simple.. when people try to stick their nose into your business.. be outrageous.
Over the top.
Without boundaries.
Why should you observe being proper when they aren't?

Do not hurt the people I like or love. If you do.. prepare for a response.. sometimes it's slow.. sometimes it's verbal. Sometimes it's a poisoned cookie.
Because.. as they said on the Grey's Anatomy that I missed (dont watch it much anyway unless Libby wins the remote) people are important.. they may be waiting for you to die or fail.. but they are your people and having people is better than having no people.
For me.. my people are the mostest of the most to me. They remind me of where I come from. They remind me of why I am the way I am. They remind me of how come I can't give up. They remind me of why I have the mouth I do.

I am an amazingly simple woman.
I want what I want for as long as I want it until I am done with it.
Is that so hard to understand?

And therefore.. when someone asks me something stupid about not being miserable and married I can answer them sadly something sarcastic -- latest response is something like, "there was a horrible accident" and move along. And one day.. when all is said and done.. and we look back at the amazing times and laughter and tears (many) we had while on this adventure.. I will be able to say that I did it right. Even if it was only right by me.
Simple. Plain & Simple.